Saturday, January 21, 2012

Friend Fight Again?

(credits to my friend: Sharmaine Flores, for the editing and the picture)


Have you ever been a situation where you and your friends have a sort of misunderstandings???? Well.. I tell you, it's normal.. (Now, don't get pissed already) I've been to that situation gazillion times.. [I just made up that number.. hahaha] I've been through those situation, a lot of times.. 

And absolutely alot many fuzzy, crappy things comes your way whenever you and your bestfriend(S) have some crappy misunderstanding or fight.. you start to think like, "What's wrong with her.. ? did i did something wrong???".. Sometimes you just can't focus anymore cause you keep on thinking about endless theories that your mind makes up.. Until it comes to the point, you are afraid to talk to your bestie and a little fuzzy feeling called "pride" exist.. You start talking like, "She needs to make the first move.. It's her mistake.. I didn't do anything wrong.."

Pride is very wrong.. It is a sin, to God and it can hurt you and the people around you.. Misunderstandings are normal to a friendship.. It is a challenge for you guys , to test how true and strong your friendship is.. It is a test where you get to see and know more about each other.. It is a test where you get to see if that person is really true to you.. 

Problems comes your way all the time. Like what the bible said, "Consider it pure joy" (James 1) .. God uses problems to make us strong and to test us .. Just remain STRONG and FAITHFUL in the Lord.. Cast all your anxiety to God 'cause He loves you and He cares!!!

And about the issue.. If you really care about your friend, if you really love them.. Then, "DON'T NEGLECT THEM.."
Don't leave them on the air alone.. Be there and understand them.. Talk about your problem.. Talk about your issues to whom it is concerned..  (Matt. 18: 15-20)

"THERE IS A SOLUTION TO EVERY PROBLEM"

and

Face your problem.. dON'T run from them


Cream Love,
Justine xoxoxoxo

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